I am still a  bit overwhelmed with the genuine southern hospitality you folks demonstrated to  our members of the Vietnam Security Police Association, Inc. (USAF).  There is no possible way I can express this  in only a few words, so please excuse me if I seem verbose in sharing my  thoughts, but I am writing to friends one and all.
Before  sharing with you about the memorial, I deeply want to thank all those who  helped the Vietnam Security Police Association (VSPA)  welcome home Sergeant Bruce Dale Jones, our  fallen brother who died in Vietnam while serving his country in 1972.  I know there were many who helped smooth the  way for our arrival, and although your names remain unknown be assured your  helping hands were appreciated.
Fifty-seven  VSPA members participated in Sgt Jones’ memorial ceremony and extends a  special thank you to the people of Evergreen and Conecuh County Alabama, and to  those attending and participating in Sgt Jones’ memorial, including:
          
               Mr.  and Mrs. James Windham,
                  Family member Ms. Angela McGee  (Aunt),
                  The many friends of the family,
                  School mates and friends of Sgt  Jones,
                  Disabled American Veterans (DAV)  Chapter 72,  
                  Michael Jackson, Chaplain and Antioch Church Pastor,
                  Evergreen’s Mayor Pete Wolff III and  esteemed City Council members,
                  State of Alabama representatives and  dignitaries,
                  Conecuh County Sheriff Edwin Booker  and his deputies (many of VSPA’s members  
                  joined law enforcement departments across the nation, after discharge  from the Air 
                  Force Security Police),
                  Thurgood Marshall Middle School  Principal Ms. Lyons, Sgt Jones former alma 
                  mater,   
                  Evergreen’s Hillcrest High School  JROTC Color/Honor Guard, commanded by SGM 
                  Ralph Crysell,
                  The Patriot Guard Riders, Phillip  Brown, Ride Captain
                  Cherries Blossoms and Blooms, Cherry  Gladwell, owner, for an outstanding floral 
                  wreath  arrangement,
                  The Our Place restaurant, Ms. Mary  Sermon, owner,
                  All of who came to pay homage to the  memory of Sgt Bruce Dale Jones, and the 
                  many who wished they could have been there with us at the ceremony.
          James Windham relayed to me an Evergreen  minister’s comment that he wanted to say he was not easily impressed, but at  Friday's memorial ceremony he was definitely impressed.  I think what the minister was sensing were  the genuine heartfelt gratitude VSPA members felt toward the community for  turning out with us.  It meant a lot to  each of us.  Frankly, we were not overly  surprised as we already knew we were in the presence of Alabama patriots who  care for their veterans both living and dead and inscribe their names in  granite for posterities sake.
Most of us have heard the phrase, “…their sacrifice will always be remembered."  On veterans’ national holidays, those words  often ring hollow when T.V. commentators and talking heads mouth that  phrase.  With Veterans Day upon us, “…their sacrifice will always be remembered"  will be repeated many times.  I would be  surprised if most speakers could name a single veteran who died in combat or  line of duty in service to our country.
Veterans and others serving today in harms’  way certainly remember fallen warriors.   Law Enforcement, fire-fighters, and emergency services personal can tell  you names of their fallen.  Families  who’ve lost a son, daughter, father or mother still feel the void of loss and  will forever remember that day when the knock on their door came and they were  told the horrible news of their loved one’s death in service to our country.
During the Vietnam War, military were wounded  or killed outright and flown away, leaving comrades with unanswered  questions.  Unless they saw their friend  fall and knew he had died, it is likely they might never learn if he lived or  died.  Some would end their enlistments,  return home and try hard to forget what they had experienced.  Others felt one last duty and planned their  trip home to include the hometown of their fallen friend, and traveled to his  gravesite to pay their last respects.  They remembered.
              
              In 1982, the Vietnam Veterans Memorial (The Wall) was completed in Washington  D.C..   Only then did veterans have a  source to check for names on The Wall, hoping they would-not find their friend’s name listed.   Ironically, years slipped by and memories  faded leaving only a friend’s first or last name or nickname, and until the  early 1990’s there was no online web search as we so know it today.
Those in Vietnam who fought and lived  generally returned home individually. Rarely was the body of a fallen warrior  escorted home, as his remains was simply flown home and given a military  funeral, while those who served with him remained at war, fighting to survive  another day.
With advent of the World Wide Web, veterans  began posting online questions asking for information about their unit, men  they served with, and information about who was wounded or believed killed in  action.  It was common to simply ask if  anyone knew what exactly had happened during their tour.
Recently, a member of VSPA, Ed Daubert, asked  a question about a Sgt Jones.  Ed wasn’t  sure of Jones’ first name but thought it might be “Bruce.”  It had been Forty years since Sgt Jones fell  in line of duty, and for many of those years Ed had thought a similar name, “James Bruce Jones,” posted at VSPA’s  memorial web page, might be his friend who died in 1972 at Tan Son Nhut Air Base  near Saigon.   In time it became clear “Airman James Bruce Jones,” killed in  action at Đà Nàng Air Base in 1966 (coincidentally, James Bruce Jones was my tent mate at Đà Nàng) could not be the  Jones he remembered.  Ed also knew that  both young men had died at age twenty, which meant “his Jones” from Alabama,  would have been only age 14 when the other Jones from New York had died.
With Ed’s inquiry, I began a web search for Alabama’s  Sgt Jones.  VSPA members who served at  Tan Son Nhut Air Base were asked for input, as well as other military veteran  organizations.  Someone thought the  missing name might be “Bruce Dale Jones.”  The web search continued and a Bruce Dale Jones was found and listed as  buried at Rabb Cemetery in Alabama.  No  address was listed for Rabb Cemetery, so the search broadened to include Google  Satellite Maps.  Rabb Cemetery was  located, but it seemed to be in the middle of a forest and fronting on an  unnamed dirt road.
              
              I widened the web search to include veterans’ monuments in Alabama.  The town of Evergreen was near Rabb Cemetery,  and my search focused on Evergreen and Conecuh County.  A week prior to this search, a veterans’  monument was dedicated in Evergreen.  The  dedication was online and there was a photo of a granite monument and smaller  version of the Washington Monument.   I  enlarged the monument’s photo and visible just above an umbrella in the crowd  was the name “Sgt Bruce Dale Jones.”  The web page also included the names and  dates of casualties for the Vietnam War’s fallen veterans.  Beside Sgt Jones’ name was his known date of  death – we had found Sgt Bruce Dale Jones!
I phoned the named contact on the web page and  James Windham answered.  Frankly, without  his extraordinary help and actions, VSPA would not have been able to arrange a  memorial visit to Sgt Jones gravesite.
My brother Larry and I decided to rent a car  and drive the 109 miles from our VSPA’s 18th reunion hotel location  in Florida.   VSPA’s president, Phil  Carroll, suggested we mass-email our nearly 1,400 members and see if any could  attend the memorial with us.  Because the  reunion’s agenda was already firm when we began our search, all of the members  attending the reunion were already signed up for special events and military  demonstrations at the nearby Air Base.   Within a few days, it was apparent a rental van was too small for those  asking to attend Sgt Jones’ memorial, and the association chartered a bus.
On October 5, 2012, VSPA’s  convoy of a  bus and three cars began our trip to Rabb Cemetery.  Other VSPA members not at the reunion would  meet us there in two cars and several motorcycles.  Weather was our friend that morning; however,  we were committed to our memorial service come rain or shine.   We had stood in monsoon rains in Vietnam and  were determined we would not be stopped.   During the highway drive a light rain fell here and there, but Alabama’s  sunshine cleared away most of the clouds and we enjoyed the scenic ride.  What a magnificent countryside of lush pines  and forest that whisked past the bus’s picture windows.  Like a painter’s easel, multi Hues of green  trees and brush, and golden fields of grass swept by.  Tall pines stood in unending clusters with  tree tops swaying a welcome.  Waves of  newly mowed hay sweetened the air as tractors toted giant bales of hay near  historic homes.  Farms and small villages  seemed alive with workers.  Hidden  homesteads with gray wisps of chimney smoke painted the rustic landscape as  only God Himself could do. The land was at peace.
A little more than two hours passed and we  were rapidly approaching our turn off toward Rabb Cemetery.   I cell phoned James Windham and gave him a  heads up on our location.  Minutes later,  a Sheriff’s patrol car turned on his blue-lights and we followed his lead.  He turned off the main highway and led us  slowly down the dirt road named Antioch Church Road.  Ahead, I could see a waiting gauntlet of  cars, pickup trucks and assorted vehicles parked along the narrow country  road.  A number of people stood amongst  the parking-lot of vehicles stopped on the road itself.  It looked like Evergreen had turned out for  the memorial, and I found that most gratifying.
VSPA members and wives climbed off the bus 57  strong as the cars following us also emptied their passengers.  We began moving the hundred yards or so  toward the cemetery gate.  Old veterans  in their 60’s and 70’s don’t move as fast as they use to, but we all knew that  Sgt Jones’ grave would wait patiently for us as it had for four decades.  Thankfully, the road was solid and dry.  Eagerly I walked the red clay road ahead of  those who followed and was impressed by the vivid Alabama colors of forest tree  tops bowing creating a canopied cover here above us.  Simply beautiful!  Cobalt blue skies radiant to the point of illuminessence, with stark white cotton  clouds drifting lazily above, like islands of welcomed-shade from the hot humid  sun.
So many local  citizens had gathered inside and along the road awaiting our arrival, it was  difficult to count the number on hand.   Our next association president and Silver Star recipient Pete Piazza  remarked, “Everyone showed that even with passing of time, we do not forget our  own Sky Cops even after these many years.   It is good to know that we have folks in Alabama who care about our  Vietnam era Vets too.”
As we gathered, everyone inside the cemetery seemed  focused on the gate funneling in new arrivals; not staring, but more like  searching out friends they had only heard about.  I noticed the Patriot Guard Riders Association had formed a line  of honor with unfurled American flags flying, providing a safe corridor of  peers guiding us to where Sgt Jones lay at rest.  The local populace wrapped about the grounds  in a loose “L” from near the Patriot Guards to the gate’s fence line bordering  the road.  The JROTC stood at attention  resplendent in colorful red uniforms and white “cowboy” type hats with turned  up side rims.  Their flags wafted lazily  in an occasional puff of welcomed light breeze.
I paused at the gate as my eyes  searched out the one headstone I had remembered from James Windham’s beautiful  photo taken from the cemetery roadside the day of our first phone call.  I realized I had quietly been holding my  breath, but at last -- there it was.  I entered the cemetery and stood momentarily,  nodding hello to friendly faces.  I knew  beyond doubt that I was standing on hallowed ground.  I also knew there were many other veterans at  rest nearby Sgt Jones’ grave.  All were  at final rest beneath a blanket of manicured green, bordered by a tall standing  forest like vigilant sentinels that had weathered many a storm since the early  1800’s.
              All the while, there was a silence as those awaiting  our members had gathered.  Something special was happening as all came  together with a single purpose, within the protective heavy forest of nature’s  honor guard, and folks began to close in as if joining ranks with family.  I knew at that moment Sgt Jones’ sacrifice  will indeed always be remembered.
              
              While entering the cemetery, I had noticed other headstones large and small,  and it was apparent that even names carved in granite would in time seemingly  melt and fade due to exposure to the elements.    I then stood near the podium, shook James Windham’s hand for the first  time (he really does look like Santa!) and stole a glance at Sgt Jones’  weathered headstone which seemed to have held up extraordinarily well through  the years.  I knew that James Windham and  his gracious wife had scrubbed and washed the granite tombstone, thoroughly  removing four decades of weather.  
              
              After brief introductions a quick  agreement on how best to conduct the ceremony was decided. Newell Swartz,  VSPA’s past president, gave a heartfelt speech in which he offered up the  reasons why fellow veterans would travel across the nation to a small Alabama  country cemetery to honor a young man who died in service to his country some  four decades ago: 
              “… for as long as a man is remembered, he  is not truly gone.” In many ways, the war still seems like yesterday to  many of us.  It was as if a Star Trek  science fiction time-portal had  opened and allowed us to step through from war zone to gravesite.  Our memories of Vietnam are at times still  too vivid and fresh… but today we had added a new memory of comfort in that we  had found a lost fallen warrior taken from us.   In that moment we could step away from Vietnam into the fields of  Alabama and stand at last beside one who had stood with us seemingly only  moments ago.  We Remembered Sgt Jones,  and his service to country. We remembered that once we were young, as he will  always be, and had stood shoulder to shoulder against a determined enemy.  For those brief moments, we were young Airmen  again and savored the renewed camaraderie and friendship.
Like shadows of distant years we  remembered times both good and bad. We remembered shared hopes, fears, and  talks of home and family.  We could not  forget the hardship and memories still too painful for many who witnessed  unbelievable destruction of war.  We  could not forget decades later the feel of smooth black granite and the touch  of engraved names of friends long dead upon The Wall of 58,178.
              Mayor Wolff read a fitting  proclamation stating that October 5th will be Sgt Bruce Dale Jones  day now and for perpetuity.
              Sgt Jones’ Aunt Angela McGee said a  few words of remembrance, and of her joy that a memorial was being held for  him.  I could see the stress she then  felt, and thought of  English  Warrior-poet Wildred Owen, killed in action in 1918 on the fields of France the  last week of WW I. Owens once wrote: “Above  all I am not concerned with Poetry—my subject is war, and the pity of War … the  poetry is in the pity.” To me, the  pity, as Newell Swartz stated is found in Thomas Jefferson’s quote: “The Tree of  Liberty has to be watered by the blood of patriots and tyrants.”
A tribute poem by Howard Yates, bagpiper, was  read by Pete Piazza.
Then came the moment when thirteen  comrades who served at Tan Son Nhut Air Base were called forward for the wreath  laying ceremony.  These men, shadows of  the past if you will, stood tall and followed those who served with Sgt Jones  carrying a floral wreath with ribbons inscribed: “VSPA Remembers Sgt Bruce Dale  Jones, Welcome Home.” Nearly three dozen fellow members, and numerous citizens  and dignitaries of Evergreen and Conecuh County followed the procession.
              The wreath was placed by Ed Daubert  and suddenly we are old men again, each with thoughts of lost friends and times  past.  Aunt Andala McGee stands near Ed, as all quietly listen to the moment of requested  silence.  A VSPA member in Scottish  military dress plays Amazing Grace on the bagpipes, creating such feeling it  tugs at every heart and sets free glistening tears.  I could not help but see the parallel in the  lyrics: “Amazing Grace, how sweet the  sound, that saved a wretch like me. I once was lost but now am found
….”
              As the last note of Amazing Grace  faded into history, I found myself recalling in part the poetic lyrics of Taps:
          
              
                  
                      
                          
                              “Day is gone … gone the sun, 
                                  From the lake, from the hills, from the sky; 
                                  All is well, safely rest, God is nigh…
                                  While the light fades from sight, 
                                      And the stars gleaming rays softly send, 
                                      To they hands we our souls, Lord, commend.”
          Yes, Sgt Bruce Dale Jones, you were  remembered by those whom you served with, and your fellow countrymen; your soul  commended to the Lord; and I tell you plainly and from the heart:  Though forty years have passed, your  sacrifice will always be remembered.  We will not forget this day, or your service that brought us here, as long as  we draw breath.
              Thank you Evergreen and Conecuh County  for helping VSPA Welcome Home our brother. 
                  Don Poss,
Vietnam Security Police Association, Inc. (USAF)
              Communications Director, Webmaster
              Photo: James Windham presents awards to Bruce Dale Jones' Aunt Angela McGee and Rev Michael Jackson, as VSPA President Newell Swartz (far right) looks on.
              
Photo below: James Windham was presented the below framed poster, with signatures of USAF squadron members that served with  Bruce Dale Jones in Vietnam.
              